Mean Muggin' Mondays: "Baby, Do I Look Fat"
Hola Folks!
I hope your Monday ended very well with no injuries or violence needed to be involved :-)
For today's Mean Muggin' Mondays I would like to attack the dreaded question that most men cringe when they hear their significant other says: "Baby, Do I look fat in this?"
This age-old question is one that most men tend to avoid in order to save that stilleto heel from flying across one's head. However, when a man truly answers the question honestly, we as women have emotional break-downs and throw a temper tantrums so big that you would have thought the you were told he cheated on you rather than you were told that you have gained a few pounds.
I will admit, I have asked that question and wonder if my booty does looked big in certain things (though that is a good thing :-) ) but what I don't understand is WHY WOULD YOU GET MAD WHEN YOUR TOLD THE TRUTH?! Shouldn't you be happy to know that your man or best friend or family member told you the truth rather than lie to you and cause you to continue on the same path of gaining a size ( or two..)?
I am not saying that anyone should hurt people's feelings. In fact, if your bf is an ASSHOLE and tries to degrade you to the path where you do not know your self-worth, KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB ( AND KICK HIS ASS TOO!) However, if you have someone who will be honest with you and genuinely tell you something because they care, stop with the damn crying and bitching and self-evaluate what you are doing wrong. The truth hurts people! If the truth was always cotton candy sweet, everyone would be honest and we would all live in a nice clean world. However, that is not the case so deal with it.
I have emotions like any other woman, but I would rather be told the truth upfront so I can deal with my problems rather I am lied to and I continue on a destructive path....
What do you think? Like I always say, Honesty always develop true growth.....
Take care and don't stress, I mean it is the holidays, so a lil extra cushion won't hurt no one :-)
Ta...Ta....
On Friday, when I was on the plane, I got into a conversation with two plder women (who were heading for a weekend filled with "young hot guys and a whole lot of booze" as they called it as one woman's divorce. You go, you cougars!) We began to talk about all of the latest sex scandals, particularly the Tiger Woods scandal. Of course, as women, we all had said it is so sad to see Tiger cheating on his wife and with ugly girls at that. During our whole male bashing conversation, one of the women said something that really got to me. She said,"If I was the mistress, I would have kept my mouth shut. I mean, Tiger probably paid her rent and everything. Why mess that up?" I couldm't help but to give the ill-grill face to this 40-something woman for saying something like that, but how can I blame her to think this way?
As women, we have a choice, Do we want fame or love? However, just remember, when a man thinks of you as a side chick, you will always be a side chick. Do you really think it is worth sacrificing your time and energy on something that does not have a future to it? I don't know about you, but if a man can't call you without talking about how much he wants to f*ck you, it is about that time to move on...
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