Crazy Random: Much Needed Inspiration
Thanks to the ladies at Parlour for this......phrases to live by :-)
Thursday Eye Candy: Idris Elba Is Too FINE!!!
So, enjoy today's chocolate goodness and pick up this month's Ebony magazine on newsstand now! :-)
Crazy Music: Why Janelle Monae, Lupe, B.o.B. Are Dope!!!
Okay, I'm #latelikeCNN with this but since this REMIX is soooo dope!!!
Check out Janelle Monae's Wondamix of her song, Tightrope, featuring Lupe Fiasco and B.o.B.
Damn, I love her music!!! Vibe out below...
Crazy Throwback: You Need A Man...With...SENSITIVITY
So, join me in some bird activity and jam with ya girl!!!
"Owwwww THAT'S MY PART RIGGGHTTTT DERRREEEE!!!!!"
Crazy Question: What The Hell Is A Friend With Benefits?
As many people know that I am not one to shy away from speaking my mind. However, there are some concepts in this world that even I don't know what to think or say.
Now, as 20-something chica and having peers around me who are young and free, I love to see individuals love and life live. I'm an avid believer that your 20s are the years to have fun, act crazy(not Lindsay Lohan crazy but crazy) and mold your future to make your life grand. HOWEVER, there is one concept I can't get down with and that is "friends with benefit."
I have male friends who have them and I have female friends who have them and I don't get the -ish because they are always complaining about something going wrong during these transactions. For those who might now know what a "friend with benefits" is, let me give you a brief definition:
Friends with Benefits- Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved. Typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogomous relationship or any kind of commitment
Though the concept of having a friend you can f*ck on the regular might sound dandy to some, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE AND NOT HAVE FEELINGS FOR THEM! I don't care what anyone says, if your having sex with your friend you are going to develop emotional feelings for that friend.
Especially for women!!! We cannot have a friend with benefits because naturally we see sex as an emotional experience we have with a person that we could potentially see a relationship with. That's why many women keep their ex-boyfriends around because though the relationship is over, you're able to still share that passion one might still have for their ex...even if it only for a couple of minutes (sometimes hours for some, just saying :-) )
Through my experience, I've seen many "friends with benefits" deals go sour and they end up regretting the decision to keep the sexual relationship when they know there's more to it.
So, I poise the question, why the hell would have a friend that you f*ck from time to time when you know that you're going to build feelings for in the long term? Or, is it possible to have a friend you bang from time to time?
What do you think? SOUND OFF!
Thursday Eye Candy: Jermaine Can Get A "Booty Call"
Waddup Young World!
I hope you all are well rested after last holiday weekend as I am. Though I am sweating balls right now in NYC, at least I know I am burning extra calories when I am...ummm...."exercising." :-)
Introducing Mr. Jermaine Paul. You might be familiar with the singer as he has performed with Grammy award winning singer Alicia Keys. The New York native was once signed to Shaquille O'Neal's short-lived label Twism Records (and when I say short live I mean a SECOND) where he was the lead singer for the R&B group 1Accord. The dude also performed on the soundtrack of the hit movie, Booty Call, that featured Jamie Foxx and Jada Pinkett Smith.
After singing background vocals for artists like Mary J. Blige, Brandy and Kelly Price, Jermaine received the opportunity to work with Ms. Keys on her album, "The Diary of Alicia Keys."
Though his resume is impeccable, it's his looks that has many women's panties in a twist! The chocolately-singer has a nice smile (almost like he can do a Colgate commercial) and ladies, trust me when you see him perform, you can't but help to admire the sweat that drips all over his BAAWWWWDDDY, not body BAWDY!!!
So, feast your eyes on the singer and to learn more information about him, check out his song below.
This track is soo dope, I can't tame myself with this track.
Check it out!
Later days....
Thursday Eye Candy: Lupe + Pharrell = Yummy Eye Candy Sandwich
God, you know how to make this Thursday grand! My two loves join forces for the 'Despicable Me' soundtrack, that Mr. Williams produced.
Check out the song, I'll just be here, staring at the pic above.....YUMMY!!!
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